Comments for Kari's Thoughts

Comment on An End to Breastfeeding…. by Anna

Anna — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 20:45:30 +0000

You will do what’s right, no matter what you choose. Clearly, it’s not a decision you’re making lightly, either. You ARE a good mother because you’re making the most educated decision you can make, and if it’s going to formula, so be it.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned about being a parent, it’s to never judge the reason why someone’s not breastfeeding their baby. More often than not, there’s good reason why they’re formula feeding. You just usually don’t get an explanation up front. It’s tiring to see moms being judgmental no matter what the circumstances. Why can’t we all just get along?

Comment on An End to Breastfeeding…. by Julie

Julie — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 17:35:45 +0000

Kari, you are such a strong girl, putting up with that pain all the time. You have done a great job breastfeeding as long as you have. You will not be letting Elliott down. Set a date for yourself in a week or two to stop–that way you will have some time to prepare rather than cutting it off tomorrow. Take care of yourself so you can be better for Elliott in the future! You’re a great mom and an inspiration!

Comment on An End to Breastfeeding…. by Kate

Kate — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 02:31:42 +0000

Hey Kari.

I had a tough time giving up nursing Abe too. Although I wasn’t in the same spot as you. I never really made tons of milk and had to start supplementing quite early. But because I wasn’t able to breastfeed Rae, I was particularly thrilled that it worked with Abe. And I quickly fell in love with it — as weird as that may sound to some people. Obviously what your doctor is saying is right, even though it’s a tough pill to swallow I’m sure. But you do need to take care of yourself so you’re in the best condition for Elliott.

It WAS tough at first. But it gets easier. Try and take comfort in the fact that by nursing her this long has already provided TONS of extra nourishment that will carry her through her lifetime. Be proud of the last five months and all you’ve done. You’ve lasted far longer already than most women!

Comment on So, If You Know of Anyone Who’s Hiring… by Angela Duckart

Angela Duckart — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 02:28:35 +0000

Kari, I feel the pain (minus the baby aspect). If you’re feeling like you need some adult interaction during the day, let me know…I hear the Racine Zoo is a great place to take kids to!

Comment on I’m Back! And I’m a Mother! by Anna

Anna — Fri, 01 May 2009 19:56:49 +0000

You know, that was one of those things that people never really talk about post-childbirth (the whole body-image thing). I had no idea that I’d be still wearing maternity clothes post-partum. Keep in mind, it took you 40 weeks to put all that on (including a new human and lots of fluids), and you should be as kind to yourself to allow for AT LEAST 40 weeks to take it off again. All those hormonal power surges of things trying to normalize after the birth really throw a person. (Hello, mood swings and crazy skin!) And if you find yourself not really bouncing back emotionally from childbirth, THAT’S OKAY, TOO! I finally stopped denying I had post-partum depression when my son was 6 months old and finally got some help. Finding new parent groups and friends with newborns are such an important lifeline, too. Even though it’s tough, it is so, so worth it, and I can tell you know that already. Congrats.

Comment on I’m Back! And I’m a Mother! by Em Feig

Em Feig — Fri, 01 May 2009 13:01:08 +0000

Kari- your words brought back waves of shared emotions I felt after Zachary was born, thanks for being true to your feelings. Childbirth and parenthood are such a wild adventure! As you said, it is worth every step as I look at my little booger faced boy “reading” his books next to me. I will tell you that I finally broke down and bought some jeans that fit me where my body was at and it made such a huge difference in how I felt in my skin. I told myself that it wasn’t a total loss for when I go through the whole process again some day, God willing. We can’t wait to come see you all soon and share stories and life. I can’t get over how adorable Elliot is! Em

Comment on It’s Go Time…. by Aunt Gale & Uncle Tom

Aunt Gale & Uncle Tom — Sat, 04 Apr 2009 21:51:44 +0000

Hi Kari and Homer,
I finally got the time to sit down and read your blog. Thank you so much for sharing your your thoughts with us. It sure sound like you went thru alot. We are to glad Elle is the perfect little bundle we knew she would be. Take care.
We look forward to all the pictures and updates.

Comment on It’s Go Time…. by Jenny

Jenny — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 20:43:33 +0000

Hi KP- So excited that you have a blog and so excited that you are now a mom. It’s just the most amazing ride ever. Take care and I look forward to hearing about your birth story!
Jenny

Comment on It’s Go Time…. by Betsie Frohwerk

Betsie Frohwerk — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 12:39:32 +0000

Oh Kari,
You have a daughter…..I mean, she’s really here!!! As I type this my eyes fill with tears. Now they fall on my cheeks. I am so happy for you and your new family. From Homer’s notes, it seems like you were a true Champion and your daughter is an example of a real Miracle. Congrats and I can’t wait to see more pics and hear more updates! She’s absolutely precious. Way to go, MOM!
Love,
Betsie

Comment on It’s Go Time…. by Candice Rogers

Candice Rogers — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 19:50:18 +0000

Kari,
I’m so happy for you and have no doubt in my mind that you will make child birth, well the actual delivery, look like a day at the park! I’m so proud of you and I know everything will go just the way that it is suppose to! Have faith my dear, for soon you will be a mommy too. I love you so much I don’t know what I would do if i didn’t have a “sista” like you!